My story with alcohol is a bit complicated, and I honestly wasn’t sure whether I was going to share this publicly.
But women are drinking more than ever before, and if this episode helps even one person to change, shift or clarify their relationship with alcohol in a positive way, no matter what that looks like, then it’s worth it.
Like many with similar stories, I began drinking underage in my mid-teens at parties.
I would do/say/become someone else when I drank, and it wasn’t always a version of myself that I liked.
Sometimes I felt like it made me more fun, extroverted, hilarious (at least in my own mind). Other times I would become moody, angry and depressed.
It took me years to have major breakthroughs with becoming observant to the effect alcohol was having, not just on my body but on my life in general, and today I’m opening up.
In this very personal episode, I’m sharing:
Another issue discussed is peer pressure, because contrary to popular belief, it doesn’t go away after high school. People will regularly insert themselves into your experience in the world and want you to conform for their own various personal reasons, potentially to make them feel more comfortable about their own drinking. You have to find ways to be comfortable with your own choices and be prepared for others not to be.
If the peer pressure makes you uncomfortable, I can tell you as someone who bartended for many years that quietly asking your bartender or server to bring you a non-alcoholic beverage without letting anyone in your party in on the secret is a very common request, and no one else is going to notice.
There are a few questions that I want you to ask yourself about alcohol.
Bear in mind that your own personal body chemistry, preferences, lifestyle and choices are going to influence how alcohol affects you, so it’s up to you to pay attention to what’s working and what isn’t.
I’d love it if you would share a screenshot of this episode on Instagram, or pop into the Room to Grow Podcast Facebook group to share your thoughts and how you feel about your own relationship with alcohol today.
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