Breaking Down the Myths of Male Sexuality with Cam Fraser

July 28, 2022

Cam Fraser is a Men’s Sex Coach who teaches men how to have better sex. I mean, he literally teaches a course called “Out Perform a Porn Star.” But not surprisingly, learning better sex has nothing to do with the typical male metrics of penis size and sexual duration. Instead, Cam’s sex coaching comes down to increasing pleasure and deepening the physical and emotional relationship men have with their partner.

Because believe it or not, men statistically want better sex, whether they talk about it with their buddies or not.

By the way, this episode is as much for women as it is for men. We dive deep into communication, exploration and vulnerability before, during and after sex, which involves both partners equally. As you’ll learn, those are truly the keys to better sex. Cam is here to teach us how. 

In this episode, we’re talking about:

  • The myths about male sexuality
  • Why orgasm is often the end of sex
  • The difference between sexual pleasure and gratification
  • How porn and masturbation affect sex life
  • The importance of foreplay and cuddling
  • How to have more meaningful sex
  • How you can still have sex with erectile dysfunction
  • How men can improve and lengthen sexual performance

Cam Fraser is a Certified Professional Sex Coach, Certified Sexologist, Registered Counselor, and Registered Tantric Yoga Teacher. His work integrates scientifically validated, medically accurate information about sexual health, with sacred sexuality teachings from the mystery traditions. 

Man or woman – I’d love to know how Cam’s wisdom and coaching lands with you. What was one thing you learned in this episode? Message me, and please share and leave a review! 


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