The Subtle Ways Self-Abandonment Sneaks Up on Us
January 10, 2023
Every time we betray our true self in order to please someone else, we abandon a small part of us. Every time we say “yes” when we really mean “no,” or ignore our own needs, or cling to an unhealthy relationship for fear of hurting their feelings, we give up another small part of our authentic self.
Slowly, those small parts add up to a gaping hole that can irreparably damage our relationships with others and ourselves. So today, we’re talking about noticing the signs of self-abandonment and how to confidently balance the healthy compromises (required for relationships to work) while showing up in the world as nothing but your most authentic, genuine self.
In this episode, we’re talking about:
- How to effectively compromise, without self-betrayal
- How people pleasing leads to self-abandonment
- The importance of setting boundaries
- Conscious incompetence
- Building self worth and appreciating yourself
- The dangerous cycle of people pleasing and self-abandonment
- The attractiveness of integrity and authenticity
Do you struggle with staying true to yourself? Let me know how this episode inspires you to make changes in your life. DM me on Instagram @emilygoughcoach
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REFERENCES
Episode 340 | The Hidden Costs Of Losing Yourself In Relationships
Episode 277 | Are You Waiting Around To Be Chosen? (Standards, Boundaries & Expectations)
Episode 267 | You’re Not Needy, You’re A Human With Needs
Episode 220 | Recognizing What Self-Betrayal Looks Like
Episode 302 | Self Love & Loneliness: Learning To Like Yourself
Episode 306 | Changing How We Define Emotional Strength & Recognizing Emotions As Data
Episode 270 | Cultivating A Deep Sense Of Self Worth
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